10 Things To Love About Planning Your Wedding

POSTED BY Cassandra Bromfield, 30 July 2007

Your path to a perfect wedding can sometimes take dangerous detours. Accusations of misguided loyalty often surface, feelings of paranoia sometimes rise while watching everything spiral out of control. And that's just dinner with the in-laws. You've got to relax.

Honor a beautiful union, not the perfect shade of lavender. Your head may feel like exploding because the red roses are just a hue darker than the bridesmaids' dresses which now, of course, means that EVERYTHING IS RUINED. Honestly, it's not a plot by your jealous single friend to hold you back.

Step back and keep your eyes on the prize. Plan your wedding and when some things don't go quite right, have a plan B and by stay grounded, relaxed and informed.

No more temper tantrums.

1 through 10 the good stuff:

1. It's all about you: Well at least most of it is. If you are a closet narcissist, this is your time, and I mean the only time, this personality disorder will be tolerated.

2. Family and Friends: As you struggle to keep the guest list to a minimum, knowing all your peeps will be together for a celebration is something to look forward to.

3. Cash and Prizes: Let's face it you may not be in it for the money, but you do get great gifts. A Bridal Registry is a brides Wheel of Fortune. Pick out your dream gifts and see what happens.

4. The Dress: This one garment that makes your heart go pitter patter. This dress makes you feel good because you look good. It is so much fun to flutter around the dance floor and know that this is the most fabulous day of your life. Yes a dress brings you all of that.

5. Bargains: Planning a wedding means being shocked by all the costs involved. This is probably one of the all time large expenses you will have next to buying a home. Couples have been blindsided by the cost of flowers to limos. So when you get a bargain, discount, or freebee, you'll want to shout it from the rooftops. 10 percent will be like music to your ears.

6. Hair and Makeup: Ah yes, back to it's all about you. All at the beauty treatments makes you feel like a million (I know it cost that too). Have a practice run with your stylist and take a picture so there are no mistakes on the actual day.

7. The Reception: Celebrate, Celebrate, and Dance to the Music. Everyone wants to get their Electric Slide on (or maybe not)but you will want to get moving. Food, laughter, fun it's time to really have a good time and enjoy the fruits of your labor. Create a play list with your musicians or DJ. You don't want music to dance to while your guests are eating or low tempo sounds when you want everybody up on the floor. Put what music goes with what activity.

8. Ex- Boyfriends: How ya like me now? You see him. He's down on his luck, no doubt, he doesn't have you in his life. Upon telling him you're getting married he, falls to his knees, crying uncontrollably. He should have never let you go. You were always a strong, positive, powerful woman. NOW WAKE UP! You've gotten that off your chest.

9. The Honeymoon: Taking time to settle down and relax. Warm breezes and hot nights. You just can't wait.

10. Husband and Wife: Should this be #1, maybe, but when you're planning, 1- 9 is all you think about. When that moment comes that you are pronounced husband and wife, 1-9 disappears. The both of you enter into this union and become two powerful individuals together. It's something to look forward to.

Planning a wedding is a stressful task, but there is lots of fun stuff along the way. Plan your life together, it makes the party last longer.

Cassandra
www.cassandrabromfield.com